Marrying Martian and Venusian: A Match Made in Earth

Why women always deliver words exaggeratedly while men produce merely a small amount of words in daily life?

Why women usually crying while men are keen on silence when they face a problem?

A long time ago, Martians met Venusians falling in love and deciding to devise a joyful relationship. They respected and accepted their diversity, then lived together in the same dwelling called “Earth”. Unfortunately, when they arrived in the breathtaking view globe, they lost their memories that they came from different planets.

As well as a book was written by John Gray, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, explained how did the discrepancy emerge amidst both of the genders which disrupted comfortable relationship and how to build good effective communication between two creatures to avoid the devastation of love harmony.

We have understood that physically men and women are totally different, for instance their brains. In some studies, the size of female brain is on average at 10 percent smaller than in male brain but it is not related to differences of intelligence.

Surprisingly, women can generate two-folded words larger than men’s ability due to the dimension of female’s corpus callosum responsible for transforming information amid hemispheres tend to bigger than male’s possession.

The distinction brain of male and female in structure and function affects their behavior, emotion, language, sexual orientation, and spatial ability.

Furthermore, men figure is depicted as a problem fixer while women's character is reflected as a home refinement committee. It means that men will feel great and glory when their ability and solution are valued. Contrarily, women prefer to prioritize their feeling and assisting.

Going to a cave and keeping calmness are men’s styles to cope with a problem. For women, talking or crying is the best way for relaxing their stress because biologically their brains create oxytocin hormone which invents pleasure feeling.

In the name of pride, helping a man to grow and thrive can be undertaken by reception and encouragement because nurturing himself is the Martian’s instinct, don’t insist to alter them because they can be resentful and feel unappreciated.

In the name of dignity, assisting women to expand their potential can be encountered by accompanying and supporting because Venusian’s instinct is caring other, even sometimes they are willing to be hurt for the sake of others.